alpha?

hurm.. ni kes tgk criminal minds byk sgt.. and satu hari terdgr bout 'alpha people' in this series.. (kesian kan? lambat..hehe) so aku pn menggunakan kemudahan google utk mencari orang-orang 'alpha'.. so ini yg dijumpai..

the alpha is the individual in the community with the highest rank (wikipedia.com, 2009)

huh? err.. so? aku tak phm jgk.. since criminal minds suka sgt mempersoalkan personality of alpha people.. so aku google lagi.. haha (cuba mengaitkan crime ngan alpha people).. selepas tu mula la jmpa beta, gamma, delta, dan omega.. eyh2? byk plak.. huh.. org blaja psychology tahu la kot.. ke aku yg katak bawah tempurung? hurm..

so skang nak ckp psl alpha jer.. yg len crk sendiri.. hehe.. so ni yg aku jumpa..

jom tgk alpha female dulu ;P

Alpha Female Characteristics


Every woman has Alpha Female traits inside of them; some are just better at showing it than others. While most women are passive and wait for or use silent flirting to get men to approach them, the Alpha Female calls all the shots in her world and makes things happen. Inside of the true Alpha Female lies an inner security that is lacking in many other women. So, how do you know if you're dealing with an Alpha Female? Below are the top five Alpha Female characteristics.


1. Independence
The Alpha Female is fiercely independent, can take care of herself and doesn't need a man in her life. She will want to be the one to set up dates and will often tell you she is busy when you ask. She will also insist on paying her part for movie tickets, getting into clubs, and for meals. She doesn't want to be in a position where she feels that she owes you in some way. She does not want to be tied down to any man and won’t rely on you for everything.


2. Assertiveness
The Alpha Female asserts influence and control and won’t be pushed around. She stands up for herself and quickly puts people in their place if they try to disrespect her. The Alpha Female is articulate and speaks with her mouth as well as with her eyes. She is a strong woman who knows what she wants, feels and needs and easily expresses these things. The Alpha Female is used to having men pursue her and give in to her every whim; therefore, she is selective about who she invites into her life and will quickly let you know she's not into you.


3. Confidence
The Alpha Female truly loves herself and is comfortable in her own skin. She loves her body and her brain and she works them out regularly. She knows her own value and sees that she’s beautiful from the inside out. She is playful, yet determined and you will find that an Alpha Female is extremely sure of herself. She won’t settle for less than the absolute BEST in everything from men to her career. She's on top of her dating game and doesn't doubt for a moment that she has the ability to get any man she wants. She gives you a run for your money and doesn't make it easy to pick her up.


4. Sex Appeal
You will find that the Alpha Female isn't always the most beautiful woman out there; however, she always practices making herself look good, knows the hottest parties and gets into every club without waiting. She flirts with you and moves her body in ways that make you think of sex. She's a fashion leader who is able to wear a varied wardrobe with elegance, flair and style. She doesn't blend in with the crowd and you immediately know when she walks in the room because of her charisma and dynamic presence.


5. Ambition
The Alpha Female is actively pursuing dreams or goals and is not concerned with a man making enough money to provide for her. She manages to rise to the top in her career because of her style and intellect and is not afraid to use, and sometimes, exploit her femininity to get her way with men or seal business deals. Simply put, she is a woman who is completely in control of her destiny.


so.. bacer2.. aku terpikir.. wujud eyh girl like this? (mula memikirkan gadis2.. wanita2 yg pernah aku jumpa dlm hidup..) pikir2... ader!! hehe.. guess who? haha.. ok2.. aku xley deny kot.. walaupun menyampah dulu2 kat die (well.. dier yg jeles dulu sbb i lg cute dr dier.. sorry doc.. haha) she's hot.. i mean.. duuhh... yang deny mesti jeles ni.. haha..
okey2.. enuf with that.. hurm so this is alpha man.. check it out gurlz:>>

Never Qualifies Himself: The alpha male makes no apologies, he doesn’t explain his behavior. he is completely comfortable in his own skin so he doesn’t need to. They don’t boast about their success or try and prove anything – again they don’t need to; they assume you will like them simply because other people do, but they don’t care if you don’t – they won’t chase after you for your validation, they don’t care.

Talks Slow: Notice when you talk to someone you look up to you will talk faster – Talking fast is a way to qualify yourself to someone – essentially you are scared they will stop listening or find some more interesting stimulous, so you get your point out quick so they will listen – it actually has the opposite effect, and it shows your lower status.

Doesn’t Look Around: He is the party and the focus of attention – he is unconcerned with what other people are doing.

Is The Focus of Attention: He is centrally positioned in the group, everyones body language faces him and is positive towards him – you can tell the alpha male of the group just by looking at them. Expect to be the focus and position yourself to be so, step up within your group and you will start to take on this dominant role.

Take The Glory: When you tell a funny joke they take it one further and steal the laugh, when you do something cool they congratualte you for it and give you their approval. When you have an idea they acknowledge it and add to it – giving their approval and tweaking the idea it becomes their own, and they get the credit for it.

Are Never Impressed: They can be self centered and unimpressed with the achievements of others. They are high achievers themselves and strive for success so they have seen it all before – it takes a lot, or a really high value to impress them – they have high standards on every level.

Enjoy a Challenge: They enjoy making friends with beta males, but with another alpha guy they often become “enemies”. The alpha male needs to be the alpha at all times and will compete with another male for the dominant position – if he is really the alpha male he will enjoy this opportunity.

Don’t Answer Questions: They often give a non-sensical or a basic response to questions you ask them where you are trying for conversation, trying to find common ground, or trying for report – by asking you to “guess” they are controling the frame and leading the interaction and keeping their alpha male status.

Don’t Care About You: they are self focused, you are there to entertain them, but they are above you – he believes world evolves around him and everyone is there to help him, entertain him or sleep with him – as he chooses.

Can Show A Nicer Side and Get Away With It: This goes back to not caring what people think. he can be nice / genuine / down to earth if he wants to and on the occasions that he is he gets even more credit for it – he isn’t a geek trying to be nice for validation, he is a cool guy who has a down to earth side sometimes.

Is Comfortable In His Own Skin: Ultimately he is comfortable within his own skin, this is one of the the main alpha male characteristics, and if you can be comfortable in your own skin then everything else will follow. He doesn’t care what people think, he is assertive enough to give his own opinion, and he is happy and confident in any situation.

so aku dapat kesimpulan kenapa aku single lagi (tetiba?) hehe.. sebab aku slalu ter'crush' kat alpha male.. dang... i shud chase for 'beta' male.. a lot easier.. haha...

tetiba tertgk dating tips.. (jgn salah paham yer.. sy masih tidak suker dating2 + couple2 thingy ni) bley tgk ni.. u dun need to be alpha female btw.. u just need to know how to handle this type of guy.. wink.. haha

allowed urself to receive? that's the hardest thing to do.. terasa cam humiliate diri sendiri plak.. hehe.. sorry.. sayer mmg ego.. blueek! (teringat zaman2 tdk matang melayan kluar2 dating ni)